Love or Friendship? When we were young we would often see couples in the streets or in restaurants dating as if there was no tomorrow left. As we grow we feel changes, series of changes that we often have no idea on why they occur. In the same way as we reach the age of puberty, well some of us develop crushes or even having girlfriend/boyfriend some even of us even have abundance of them. Loving is a certain change that each and every one of us have experienced. Everything about love starts from being friends, like a seedling that grows. We first feel love towards our parents, siblings, family members, crushes and so on. Love is something that is hard to describe there are different kinds of love but most people seek its expression in a romantic relationship with a compatible partner. For some, romantic relationships are the most meaningful element of life, providing a source of deep fulfillment.  However, giving love doesn’t always mean you can receive the same thing from the person you give your love to.  Love makes you happy, sad, or sometimes crazy. But what if love comes to you in the wrong situation. Isn’t it funny how love begins at being friends and ends at being friends as well? Often times we love our friends, strangers that we’ve only met for as long as we can remember. But isn’t it sad when the person you love the most, the person you want to spent your entire life with to share everything is actually your friend, a friend who sees you only as a friend. Would you risk everything? Even if it includes your friendship? Love knows no boundaries, according to some people love defies logic even science. Although love is something that most of us consider as something dangerous, something that has 100% effect to kill someone. It kills even the strongest person; it is like a power of  hypnotism that makes someone goes crazy all of a sudden. Falling for a close friend often force us to choose between love and friendship, an option we often regret to have. If you were to choose would you risk everything just for love. If that person is not the right one for you, you may love him or her or he’ll love you back but that love is not right you have no choice but to choose choosing what’s right other than showing love to that person even if you are dying to show it to him or her. Because you want to keep something that would last which is friendship. Loving is knowing what to do but you can’t just do it because of love it makes you feel like an idiot. You receive different kinds of advice and yet you can’t still manage to think and decide directly. If we can just control pain I think we can escape the things that would hurt us. Destiny is sometimes tricky and it lets us face things we aren’t prepared at. When love comes to you but it’s just not right that you have no choice but to choose what’s right even if the right thing to do would lead you to too much pain. What makes you even sadder is when your actually just the one who loves the person. You can’t ask, you can’t tell because that would just make you look like a fool. I think it would be a bit easier if you were able to love the right person.  Heartaches is what you feel when you see the person you love aching. And there’s nothing you can do but just watch him or her. You can’t even help yourself and you would not be able to help others too. But for all that, in reality you may even have more than one option, and often the best choice is to choose where your happiness leads you. As long as you are happy do it doesn’t let anything slow you down. Choosing happiness is what most of us actually want to have. Love or friendship, well you can have them both it’s just up to you on what you’ll do to achieve them.